Heartfelt condolences to Farrah's family and friends for their loss; may she now rest in peace, immortalized to a great extent by the roles she played. This survivor genuinely relates to Farrah's character in her 1984 "THE BURNING BED" where she played a battered woman who killed her husband in self defense. Recalling that story, while I was experiencing the torture in my real life did occassionally spark my consideration to oft my captor/assailaint. In my seriously reduced physical condition, I doubted my ability to overcome one much stronger with sharper senses. I feared if I was not successful, he would surely kill me and maybe my mother as well. The Burning Bed brought awareness to the forefront, as did the dramatization of Ike & Tina Turner's true story. Celebrities have the opportunity to teach important lessons thru the roles they play. Often the true stories of non-celebrities would greatly impact the public...if they had the opportunity to hear them. Mine is just one such story. I hope to be remembered not for opening the door to disaster in my weakest moment but rather for what positive impact my cautionery tale may have in keeping awareness in the forefront. Please remember trained advocates await your call at the National Domestic Violence Hotline, 24 hours a day. Call 1-800-799-SAFE or visit www.NDVH.org
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Survivor, your experiences are remarkable. This forum seems very cathartic for those seeking understanding. Thank you for having the courage to share your stories and perspective...offering refuge and hope for those still in captivity.
Great blog! Let's people know there is help out there. The only problem I see with the whole scenero is that to oftem victims feel they are at fault and lie about their attacker, or just stay in denial that things will get better. They don't ,unless you gain enough weight so you can sit on them to hold them down while you call 911, you are SOL. These guys don't stop. It starts with a little slap, or a shove. then it goes ugly for both of you. Listen to this story. Think about it remember the number for help. Stay Safe
Posted by: Charlene Hobbs | 06/28/2009 at 05:03 AM
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