tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-66961167195584440592024-02-08T02:58:21.205-08:00SURVIVORAdoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.comBlogger54125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-91186324756774960682011-06-23T10:22:00.000-07:002011-06-23T10:22:35.327-07:00Demand Protection for Children traveling internationally!Child advocates are expressing outrage over world governments' continued failures to protect millions of defenseless children targeted for criminal abduction each year by monsters who facilitate the unforgiving crimes of internationally abducting or trafficking children. International border-crossing policies often do not mandate that children traveling abroad present a valid passport to border agents if a child is traveling by land or sea. When a child is stolen and illegally removed from their country of origin by either a non-stranger such as a parent, or is a victim of a stranger abduction, that child has been criminally kidnapped. The traumatic consequences placed on the kidnapped child are severe. The majority of these defenseless victims will never recover from the physical and emotional abuse directed toward them. Some of these children are unable to recover: they are lost forever. Presently, international air travel by a minor requires the presentation of a valid passport. However, many nations including the United States permit the submission of a photocopy of a child’s citizenship papers such as a photocopy of a birth certificate as an acceptable travel document for a minor age 16 or younger when traveling abroad by land or sea. <br />
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Unquestionably, lax and wreckless travel document policy requirements associated with minors traveling by land or by sea have created a colossal legal loophole - a black hole - for child-thieves and smugglers to criminally transport and remove targeted children from one country to another until they are inevitably gone forever. Undeniably, by the sheer size of the pandemic at hand, predators are utilizing these legal loopholes in alarming, yet relatively immeasurable numbers.<br />
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Inconceivably, many countries including the United States, Canada, and nations in the European Union have policies in place that allow for a child 16 years old or younger traveling abroad by either land or by sea to only present to border officials a photocopy of their proof of citizenship such as their original birth certificate. <br />
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Child abduction prevention advocates and researchers Carolyn Ann Vlk and Peter Thomas Senese, have previously published several landmark reports including the 'International Child Abduction and Human Trafficking In The Western Hemisphere' and 'Crisis In America: International Parental Child Abduction Today'. They are currently leading a research team that will publish findings on the global epidemic of child abduction and child trafficking as it relates to legal loopholes and other related flaws associated with a child’s international travel documentation requirements. The highly anticipated report titled ‘Global Child Slavery and International Child Abduction Associated With Travel Documentation Requirements' will be released in mid-July, 2011.<br />
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‘Chasing The Cyclone’ author and child advocate Peter Thomas Senese commented, “It is disturbing to realize that various governments from around the world have turned their responsible eyes away from the most often used illegal border-crossing strategies implemented by predators involved in international abduction as well as in the trafficking of children: illegally transporting a child into a country by land or by sea using fraudulent documentation due to a senseless policy often implemented often stipulating that a child does not need to present a valid passport at a border-crossing unless the child travels abroad by air. This is insane. Our children demand more from each of us. Any international travel documentation policy that does not include the use of a child being required to travel with a valid passport is a policy that does not address the issues of the safety of children. The upcoming report ‘Global Child Slavery and International Child Abduction Associated With Travel Documentation Requirements' will not only demonstrate how outlandish these non-passport requirement policies are, but hopefully it will also educate judges, law enforcement, and policymakers of just how critical and widespread these issues are. Having such laws in place will also give judges and law enforcement personnel additional tools they need to prevent the kidnapping of a child before it occurs, as once the removal takes place, it is that much more difficult and expensive to remedy.”<br />
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In fact, many governments' immigration, borders, and customs agencies publicly and privately have voiced that excessive travel documentation fraud has given rise to dramatic and sweeping increases in the number of international child abductions and human trafficking cases around the world. According to law enforcement officials worldwide, the most effective means to determine if a child is legally traveling abroad is by checking the child’s passport. Nevertheless, even the presentation of a valid passport may not alleviate all illegal removals, particularly those connected to an international parental child abduction due to the potential issuance of a secondary passport related to a child’s possible dual citizenship. However, access to real-time government records associated with a valid passport provides border agents better insight into who is legally crossing into their nation's borders.<br />
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Unquestionably, travel documentation requirements that do not require for a child to present a valid passport when traveling abroad by land or by sea have created a worldwide malignant epidemic that continues to destroy millions of lives each year.This plague is so wicked and ubiquitous that it is often acknowledged by governments and leading human rights advocates around the world as one of society’s greatest short-comings. Undoubtedly, there is no one solution; however, it is evident to those familiar with international child abduction and human trafficking that one sure-fire way to turn the tide against the most evil of fates awaiting innocent children targeted for international abduction is to mandate that every child traveling abroad present a valid passport.<br />
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Carolyn Ann Vlk, drafter of the State of Florida’s landmark ‘Child Abduction Prevention Act’ law and co-author of numerous research reports on child abduction commented on the need to conduct research on the global dilemma of abduction and trafficking as it is related to significant gaps in travel documentation requirements for children traveling abroad. “My volunteer advocacy in the area of child abduction prevention has allowed me an unobstructed view of the horror the families of a targeted child face. I've spent an incredible amount of time investigating and analyzing current legislation, policies, and trends relevant to child abduction and I have uncovered significant loopholes that are allowing children to be victimized through parental child abduction and human trafficking. In the report Peter Thomas Senese and I published concerning the Western Hemisphere Travel Initiative (WHTI), we realize the policy was intended to prevent abduction and trafficking from occurring but in reality it facilitatesthe cross boarder abduction of children through its deficiencies. WHTI allows for the travel requirements of children to vary depending if they are traveling by land, sea or air. In our upcoming report titled ‘Global Child Slavery and International Child Abduction Associated With Travel Documentation Requirements' we will publish our findings concerning travel documentation issues as they relate to child abduction and slavery issues. Our future published findings will demonstrate the urgent and critical need for uniform travel requirements for children, including a passport requirement for all modes of travel. Without uniform passport requirements, society will continue to embrace child abduction and child trafficking, and this is completely unacceptable.”<br />
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Oslo based Mr. Martin Waage, the Director of ABP World Group: a world-renown investigation and security team that has remarkably been directly involved in safely recovering over 200 criminally internationally abducted children commented on the outrageous border-crossing situation. "The expanding number of criminally abducted and trafficked children presents a deeply disturbing overview of how severe the situation is. Tragically, the greatest challenge we face in the war against child abduction and trafficking is our inability to carefully monitor and control our borders. Most nations do not have border exit controls. Coupling this incapability with weak travel documentation requirements for children, the hope advocates like myself have to one day reverse the current growth trend is dismal. As one of the leading organizations operating within the recovery of abducted, missing, and kidnapped children, ABP World Group has for years seen an explosive increase in the number of abducted and kidnapped children worldwide. Individual countries' lack of regulation and inspection of travelers, including the European Union’s open borders, has facilitated a large flow of trafficked victims, children abducted by their parents, and kidnappings across borders. This is particularly true in Eastern European, Asian and African countries. In order to stop the destruction of an unthinkable number of children's lives, lawmakers in all countries must address these needs and create laws that protect children's rights, including, critically, changing the travel documentation requirements for all children traveling abroad to include the presentation of a valid passport at all border crossings. Having recovered a substantial number of criminally abducted children taken to and from all over the world, I cannot express in strong enough terms the need to have passports presented at all border crossings for minors traveling abroad. Any failure by governments to address this issue is a direct and absolute disregard to a nation’s most precious citizens: its children."<br />
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Janice L. Jacobs, Assistant Secretary of State for Consular Affairs stated in the ‘Report on Compliance with the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction’ previously submitted to the U.S. Congress that "Unfortunately, current trends reflect a steady increase in the number of international parental child abduction cases and highlight the urgency of redoubling efforts to promote compliance with Convention obligations and encourage additional nations to join the Convention." She also writes, "Very few options exist for parents and children who are victims of parental child abduction." <br />
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Florida lawyer Patricia Lee, a prominent, successful international family law attorney often referred to in international law circles as a pit-bull with lipstick and who is of counsel to the international law firm of Urban Thier Federer & Jackson and who has substantial familiarity with international parental child abduction cases added, “As a family law practitioner who frequently deals with international issues, I see the risk of, and actual incidences of child abduction growing proportionately to our world shrinking. The failure, or inability, of courts to aggressively pursue reasonable precautions to proactively prevent such abductions is a crime in and of itself. Once an abduction has taken place, the left behind parent faces a morass of legal issues that are not only difficult to surmount due to language and cultural differences, but are also prohibitively expensive for the ordinary parent. The backlash is often permanent, and goes without any redress at all. Our best recourse is to prevent the removal of children at risk prior to it occurring, and we absolutely must have laws and procedures in place that allow us to do so. Anything less is simply irresponsible, and inhumane on a global scale. Children across the world deserve these simple safeguards from such abduction and victimization.”<br />
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Ernie Allen, President and CEO of the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children and International Centre for Missing & Exploited Children previously addressed the crimes against children when he said, "The problem of missing, abducted, trafficked and sexually exploited children is large, growing, under-recognized and under-reported." In addition, Mr. Allen commented that, "Children are the leading victims of violent and personal crimes in this country, victimized at a rate twice as high as the general population." Continuing he stated, “Children are the single most victimized segment of our population. Even with all of the progress we have made, most Americans still don’t understand that basic fact. According to Justice Department research, more than 2,000 children will be reported missing in the United States today!" Mr. Allen added, "The numbers are staggering. The tragedies continue and too many children do not make it home."<br />
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San Francisco based Gloria Nyberg, who has dedicated several decades of her life to successfully and safely bringing home children criminally abducted abroad added, “Documentation falsifications is a consistent aspect of travel for children being transported from one country to another, particularly in South and Central America. Children disappear daily, where they are eventually sold and distributed around the world for to beasts trading in the child sex slave industry, to drug dealers increasing their cartel’s presence, or are simply killed for their body organs. Without upholding passport travel requirements for children traveling from one country to another, we are in fact responsible for the monumental problem on our hands that has been partially created by our own failures to protect our children. It is time that we act responsibly as adult citizens charged with protecting innocent children. Indeed, we have an obligation to do our very best to prevent the facilitation of international abduction and child slavery. It is critical that each government adopt a passport-only travel documentation policy for children traveling abroad. Anything less than this is irresponsible.”<br />
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Pamela Michell, the remarkable founder of Survivor On A Mission and a leading global advocate spearheading public awareness of human trafficking and slavery issues stated, “Today, there are tens of millions of child slaves with no hope for a future. Kept silent through fraud, force or coercion, children around the world are stolen from their communities in epidemic proportion. Most are forced into slave labor, some caged for sexual exploitation, others await the harvesting of their vital organs, while others abducted live a life on the run...each enduring trauma and danger few will overcome. Strong action is needed now by all governments to protect our children’s' future. Critically we call upon the creation and enforcement of global laws that require a passport to be presented any time a minor travels abroad. Without this, the massive amount of travel documentation fraud that exists today that accounts for an inconceivable and incredulous number of innocent children to be targeted victims of abduction and slavery crimes will continue to rise. As global citizens, we demand more from our governments. Our children expect better from each of us."<br />
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International child trafficking and child abduction continue to grow at rapid, uncontrollable, and extraordinary rates. Alarmingly, there still remain achievable protective protocols that can substantially make a difference in the war against child abduction and slavery. One of the most important tools each nation has available to combat the evil of child abduction is to require all children to present a valid passport when traveling abroad. Peter Thomas Senese added, “What is at stake are the lives of millions of targeted children each year. Simply put, we must modify existing laws to include passport presentation for all travelers abroad regardless of age.”<br />
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The highlyanticipated report titled ‘Global Child Slavery and International Child Abduction Associated With Travel Documentation Requirements' will be released in mid-July, 2011. To view the'International Child Abduction and Human Trafficking In The Western Hemisphere' report or for more information on please visit <a href="http://www.internationalparentalchildabduction.com/">www.internationalparentalchildabduction.com</a>Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-6418699136004327202011-04-18T09:14:00.000-07:002011-04-18T09:14:23.326-07:00Best Strategy to Prevent Human Trafficking: FAIR TRADE<span style="font-family: Calibri;">How does buying Fair Trade fight Human Trafficking?<o:p></o:p></span><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The implications of Fair Trade are far-reaching.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Simple purchases of ethically produced products allow each of us to actively contribute to the restoration of global injustice.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Maybe this correlation will stir and motivate you to begin buying Fair Trade.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Human Trafficking, also known as modern-day slavery is the second largest and fastest growing criminal industry in the world today.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is estimated that <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">27 million people are currently enslaved</b> in various forms of sexual and labor exploitation …more than at the height of the trans-atlantic slave<br />
trade (Kevin Bales, </span><a href="http://www.freetheslaves.net/"><span style="color: blue; font-family: Calibri;">www.freetheslaves.net</span></a><span style="font-family: Calibri;">).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">According to the 2009 Trafficking in Persons Report, “The movement to stop human trafficking includes significant efforts to address factors that ‘push’ victims into being trafficked, but also recognizes <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">a ‘pull’ factor as part of the cause</b>…One key to addressing such demand is raising awareness about the <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">existence of forced labor in the production of goods</b>…In the global marketplace for goods, ensuring that complex supply chains are untainted by forced labor is a challenge for both businesses and consumers…<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Any successful effort to combat human trafficking must confront not only the supply of trafficked humans, but also the demand for forced labor and commercial sex that fuels it.” <o:p></o:p></b></span></div><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The easiest and most effective way to combat human trafficking is to continually <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">use your<br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Fair Trade Certified products are slave free, child-labor-free, and exploitation free.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Adults are paid a fair living wage so their children can go to school…they don’t work to help support their families. <o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The CNN Freedom Project lists various ways to find out and ensure that the products we consume are slavery free. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><a href="http://thecnnfreedomproject.blogs.cnn.com/2011/04/05/how-to-help-slavery-in-the-supply-chain/"><span style="color: blue; font-family: Calibri;">http://thecnnfreedomproject.blogs.cnn.com/2011/04/05/how-to-help-slavery-in-the-supply-chain/</span></a><o:p></o:p></div><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">See the 4/6/2011 CNN Freedom Project (Video) Julia Ormond: Slavery like virus in supply chain.<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">In this video, actress Julia Ormond, who has been an anti human trafficking activist for several decades, talks about how the consumer, government and business all play roles in ensuring the supply chain for goods is free of slavery."<o:p></o:p></span></div><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><a href="http://thecnnfreedomproject.blogs.cnn.com/2011/04/06/julia-ormond-slavery-like-virus-in-supply-chain/"><span style="color: blue; font-family: Calibri;">http://thecnnfreedomproject.blogs.cnn.com/2011/04/06/julia-ormond-slavery-like-virus-in-supply-chain/</span></a><o:p></o:p></div><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Quality Assurance and Food Safety STR RS Helps with California Transparency in Supply Chains Act Compliance.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>By January 2012, major manufacturers and retailers within the state of California must fully disclose the efforts made to ensure their products have not been tainted by slavery or forced labor at any point within the supply chain.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><a href="http://thecnnfreedomproject.blogs.cnn.com/2011/04/05/how-california-fights-trafficking/"><span style="color: blue; font-family: Calibri;">http://thecnnfreedomproject.blogs.cnn.com/2011/04/05/how-california-fights-trafficking/</span></a><span style="font-family: Calibri;">.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For more information on this new California law requiring companies to disclose what efforts they are taking to fight slavery within their production chains, see </span><a href="http://www.qualityassurancemag.com/qa-040711-STR-RS-helps-with-California-Transparency-in-supply-chains-act-compliance.aspx"><span style="color: blue; font-family: Calibri;">http://www.qualityassurancemag.com/qa-040711-STR-RS-helps-with-California-Transparency-in-supply-chains-act-compliance.aspx</span></a><o:p></o:p></div><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Further, under the Abolition of Child Commerce, Exploitation and Sexual Slavery Act of 2011, an additional $25,000 for the Victim-Witness Assistance Fund would be inflicted on any individual in the state who is convicted of committing a sex crime against a victim who is under 16 years of age. It would also apply to anyone who attempts to or does have sexual relations with a prostitute under the age of 16.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><a href="http://www.onenewsnow.com/Politics/Default.aspx?id=1323460"><span style="color: blue; font-family: Calibri;">http://www.onenewsnow.com/Politics/Default.aspx?id=1323460</span></a><o:p></o:p></div><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">I believe most people are willing to pay slightly more for goods produced free of exploitation, and encourage readers to make informed buying decisions. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Thank you for your interest and support of Survivor On A Mission.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Be aware, stay safe and stay blessed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-20707765909688021632011-01-10T05:44:00.000-08:002011-01-10T05:44:44.108-08:00Chocolate Lover's CALL to ACTIONAs a chocoholic, with a heavy heart I say good-bye to two of my longtime staple foods: Reeses peanut butter cups and Whoppers...both produced by Hersheys. The great American chocolate bar and giant among U.S. candymakers sources cocoa through supply chains exploiting the worst forms of child labor, according to Tulane University. I thought YOU deserve to know, so YOU can make informed buying decisions.<br />
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Since 2006, under contract with the US Department of Labor, Tulane has monitored industry progress in implementing Harkin-Engel protocol to produce Fair Trade Certified chocolate. Nestle and Mars are upgrading policies and procedures, making steady progress to ensure the integrity of their supply chain. Hershey's REFUSES. Much of the worlds chocolate is sourced from the Ivory Coast where it is likely child slaves were involved. These kids don't go to school or play with their friends. They are purchased by slavemasters who program them to believe they work for their keep. Not "room and board" as we would think...they are kept in horrific living conditions, working 12-14 hours a day then left to beg for food. No such thing as a restful night's sleep, no medical care. Nobody cares or advocates for these children. <br />
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Before becoming aware, I patronized Hershey's and the exploitation of these precious children and it's left a bitter taste in my mouth. Today I ask you to join me in choosing alternative chocolate products, sending a powerful message with your pocketbook. For those of us in the U.S. on modest budgets, look for products by Mars or Nestle. Another of my longtime favorites (now replacing Reeses peanut butter cups and Whoppers) is M & M's, made by Mars, using fair trade certified chocolate. <br />
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The food/fuel we take into our bodies is energetically colored by its processing. I urge readers to consider choosing fair trade certified cocoa and other food products to nurture a sweeter spirit within. For the ultimate chocolate experience, enjoy DIVINE chocolate, now available in the U.S. At <a href="http://www.divine.com/">http://www.divine.com/</a> you will discover what makes their chocolate divine! While it may not be your everyday staple food/chocolate product, I find the indulgence unmistakenly and simply DIVINE.<br />
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Some say "We are what we eat". Like a negative experience, it can make you bitter or it can make you better...and YOU deserve the best! Join me in fueling yourself with certified chocolate...good riddens Reeses.Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com23tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-42885660275906423882010-12-11T10:47:00.000-08:002010-12-11T10:47:10.994-08:00Near fatal ordeal inspired Survivor On A MissionAs you may know, Survivor On A Mission was inspired by the near fatal ordeal my adoptive mother and I endured in Federal Way, WA. Before the 2003 passing of our beloved Edward (husband/father), Mom's cognitive abilities fell sharply due to a series of strokes. An only child, I was responsible for Mom. When she fell and broke her hip less than 6 weeks after Dad passed, horrific and almost unbelievable series of circumstances ensued. In my state of shock, grief and overwhelm, I failed to recognize we were the targeted prey of a man I met in Honolulu who introduced himself as a nurse who had run adult family homes in Washington State.<br />
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Leaving the gorry details aside, our experience in no way reflected the agreed arrangement. Completely isolated and "conditioned", there seemed no way to escape captivity. Enduring daily torture, my injuries included 5 broken ribs, fractured pelvis, broken nose and jaw. I was too physically disabled to care for my mother. Regaining consciousness after strangulation, finally I realized if I didn't escape we would both die there. There was no alternative to leaving my bedridden mother with the monster who held us captive. <br />
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Mom had intermittently been on hospice care over the last six years of her life. While hospice supports surviving family as well as the patient in transition, Mom rebounded repeatedly and in the end, her passing the morning before Thanksgiving stunned me. I got the call from Franciscan Hospice in the afternoon of Nov. 23rd. I was in SoCal, and Mom was just outside of Seattle which was paralyzed by an early winter storm. Mom passed in less than 14 hours...before I could get there. She and her beloved Edward were together for Thanksgiving. Bedridden since breaking her hip, she is blessed to be in a better place. Nurses held the phone to Mom's ear as I vowed our ordeal was not in vain. Survivor On A Mission advocacy and awareness warms others in vulnerable circumstances to recognize red flag warnings and potentially deadly pitfalls of falling prey to a con-artist.<br />
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Our case met the technical definition of human trafficking as well as near fatal domestic abuse. Culminating four years of legal proceedings, our captor was sentenced in 2009 to 30 years at WallaWalla. As you may imagine, severe post-traumatic implications will have live-long effect. I've been blessed to receive training from Great Life Technologies as a Trauma Resolution Specialist which provided incredible self-healing and allows me to support others in their post-traumatic shift from Survive to Thrive.<br />
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Survivor On A Mission provides education, advocacy and resource coordination to survivors of abuse, abduction, rape, human trafficking and other traumas. Your tax deductible contributions are sincerely appreciated. Be Aware, Stay Safe, and share in a blessed holiday season and year ahead. Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-62823367698528312922010-10-09T18:39:00.001-07:002010-10-09T19:14:36.616-07:00Be A Hero For Sara<div style="background-attachment: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: white; background-image: initial; background-origin: initial; font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: medium; font: normal normal normal 13px/19px Georgia, 'Times New Roman', 'Bitstream Charter', Times, serif; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; padding-bottom: 0.6em; padding-left: 0.6em; padding-right: 0.6em; padding-top: 0.6em;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;">Today, </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><a href="http://heroesintraining.info/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">YOU have the opportunity to be a hero</span></a></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;"> in the life of Sara Kruzan…a survivor of human trafficking. The daughter of a drug addict, at age 11 Sara was first introduced to a then 31-year old man who began conditioning /brainwashing her for exploitation. At 13, he first raped her then forced her into prostitution. After 3 years, </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qR7mno6p9iQ"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">Sara snapped and shot him</span></a></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;">. Years before the passage of the </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;"><u>TVPA</u></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;">, Sara was sentenced to life without parole. Now 32, Sara has spent half of her life in prison and has requested Governor Schwarzenegger to invoke his discretionary authority to commute her sentence in her pending clemency plea. Consistently, Sara has proven to be a model prisoner; she completed her college degree during incarceration and has experienced unparalleled personal growth.</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;">Read Sara’s story. Included below is an excerpt from her letter to the governor and links to well-researched media coverage about Sara. U.S. residents from all states and territories are encouraged to sign the electronic petition while personal letters to Gov. Schwarzenegger from the global community will have greatest impact on Sara’s behalf. I’ve posted the letter I wrote and will continue posting letters from compassionate friends who have shared their letters with me for YOU to use as an example.</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;">Sara’s plea, in her own words, follows.</span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" mce_name="em" mce_style="font-style: italic;" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;">“My Life began on January 8, 1978, in Los Angeles, California. I was born to a mother who brought me into this world unwed and unsure of her decision to keep me. I grew up in Monrovia, California, in a two bedroom duplex directly across the street from my elementary school. I have fond memories of entering a drawing contest, riding my bike and learning how to cut roses the right way from my elderly neighbor. As I write this letter though, my happy memories are far and few in between, I cannot move forward until I can express what I must sincerely convey.”</span></span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" mce_name="em" mce_style="font-style: italic;" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" mce_name="em" mce_style="font-style: italic;" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;">“My childhood memories are a reminder to me that George Howard was a father himself. That he had a son and his son no longer has a father because of my actions. George was a son himself and what I have done and the remorse I feel will never go away, nor do I wish it to. I feel a deep set sorrow for taking George's life. It is daily I experience a level of grief and sadness in my heart and in my thoughts. However, as I mentioned I do not want this emotion to go away. It is a part of who I am today and I have utilized it to grow in a healthy manner. It is through the aid of intense therapy, self help groups and inspiration readings such as "Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor Frankl.”</span></span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" mce_name="em" mce_style="font-style: italic;" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" mce_name="em" mce_style="font-style: italic;" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;">“Through these inner struggles, it became a challenge for me that the feelings of remorse I hold for George are also for the young child I once was who was abused on many levels by him. I really want this letter to be about the person I am today, rather than about the pain and abuse I suffered in the past. But I know that abuse still remains a part of who I am today. I endured mental and physical abuse from my mother at a very early age. I also was sexually abused by many people. This includes George Howard, who first sexually assaulted me when I was eleven years old and who began sexually trafficking me when I was thirteen years old. This continued until I was 16 years old. I was two months past my sixteenth birthday when I shot and killed George.”</span></span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" mce_name="em" mce_style="font-style: italic;" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" mce_name="em" mce_style="font-style: italic;" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;">“When I first arrived at Central California Women's Facility I was eighteen years old and unsure of my new home. I carried within me the pain and rage from my past. There was a struggle inside me though that wanted to develop. There was a young Sara who was the track runner, student body president and person who even wrote about Drugs and its Effects that wanted to grow. However in prison without strong guidance it’s easier to let emotions of pain and anger out. After several years of my incarceration that strong guidance found me. Her name is Lt. Z. Cooper. What she did was plant seeds of encouragement. Her words gave me the strength I needed to desire to no longer feel empty inside. I discovered many positive outlets for myself. More self help groups were offered and I signed up for them. There groups helped me set healthy boundaries for myself. Even though I cannot change the blue print of my past, but I am able to build a foundation that's planted within.”</span></span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" mce_name="em" mce_style="font-style: italic;" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;"><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" mce_name="em" mce_style="font-style: italic;" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;">“Today at thirty-two years old I am not a victim. And that young girl I felt inside me before has grown and developed and is able to express herself in the woman I am today. And the woman I am today is able and capable of making healthy choices for myself. No longer will I compromise who I am for others. Today I can and do lead a life of example for others. If I am given the opportunity to rejoin society I know I will make the most of it. Just like I have made the most and continued to make the most of my life here. I am requesting a commutation of my sentence based on my history of abuse, my youthful age and vulnerability at the time of the crime and because of the person I am today. It is with love I seek to be forgiven, it is with love I have forgiven all who have hurt me. I sincerely request to be forgiven for the harm and pain I have caused. I appreciate this opportunity to have the time to explain a bit about myself to you and respectfully request a grant of clemency.”</span></span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;">I know Sara is a hero and a powerful advocate whose ordeal has not been in vain. Join me now, in advocating on her behalf… as a personal favor to me. What if she were your child, your sister or niece? </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><a href="http://humantrafficking.change.org/petitions/view/ask_gov_schwarzenegger_to_release_human_trafficking_victim_sara_kruzan_with_time_served"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">Urge Governor Schwarzenegger to liberate Sara as part of his legacy</span></a></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;"> Collectively, we hold the power to influence Gov. Schwarzenegger’s consideration. Step up and take time to show that you care and what you stand up for. As of 10/6 there were 1,175 signatures on the electronic petition. Message me with your signature number… better yet, copy me the letter you mail with your consent for me to include it as a sample for other concerned citizens. Thank you, in advance. Your awareness, interest and action is crucial and genuinely appreciated.</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;">Survivor On A Mission is in pre-launch of Heroes In Training which empowers ordinary and extraordinary people around the world to be heroes, saving or transforming lives. Visit </span></span><a href="http://www.heroesintraining.info/" mce_href="http://www.heroesintraining.info/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">www.HeroesInTraining.info</span></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;"> or </span></span><a href="http://www.survivoronamission.org/" mce_href="http://www.survivoronamission.org/"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: blue;">www.SurvivorOnAMission.org</span></span></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #38761d;"> for additional information and share in a blessed week ahead.<a href="http://www.acf.hhs.gov/trafficking/about/TVPA_2000.pdf">http://www.acf.hhs.gov/trafficking/about/TVPA_2000.pdf</a></span></span></div>Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-61310942707023808512010-09-28T11:05:00.000-07:002010-09-28T11:46:17.289-07:00Hero Qualities Transform Lives...the HERO in YOURamping up for launch of Heroes In Training, my colleage/consultant/advisor in terms of technical application of trauma resolution provided me with an anchoring session yesterday. Thank you, Magi Speelpenning, for your valuable advice! Heroes in Training empowers everyday people, through awareness and preparation, to step up and become a hero...saving or transfoming lives. <br /><br />We don't have to be trained firefighters, martial arts experts, or even CPR certified to save a life. A perfectly placed anonymous phone call is frequently all it takes. As a survivor of near fatal domestic abuse, repeated rape and human trafficking, I recognize how sociopaths are able to condition anyone to comply with a brutal, morbid existence...quietly. With my background in social services, I'm answering the call to extend what will serve as a solution for many trapped in such an existence.<br /><br />Magi reminded me of four qualities inherent in heroes...anchoring these characteristics in our daily lives enhances every life and group we come in contact with...COURAGE, COMPASSION, LOVE and HONOR. In your home, your community, your workplace or in your travels, these qualities are YOUR GIFT to humanity. <br /><br />On Thursday, September 29, 2010, I have the honor of guesting on Ken King's radio program and will highlight Heroes In Training, designed to compliment Survivor On A Mission. Heroes In Training will enlist corporate support from organizations like UPS, FedEX, Time Warner, utility and public works companies, all types of installers and delivery workers to name a few...empowering everyday people to step up and be a hero simply through their awareness and preparation. <br /><br />Know the indicators and the number to call when possibilities of abuse, rape, trafficking, or risk of suicide occur on YOUR watch. Recognize survivors of these and other atrocities are frequently plagued with post traumataic stress which can be resolved through countless therapy-free holistic techniques as well as more traditional therapy. Envision yourself as the conduit, guiding the "victim" from SURVIVE to THRIVE! <br /><br />One in 4 women reports abuse during her lifetime, one in 3 women experiences rape during her college career. The person YOU assist, may well be someone YOU love. Each of us is precious. Thank you for your interest and support. Visit <a href="http://www.survivoronamission.org/">www.survivoronamission.org</a> for more information. BE AWARE, STAY SAFE, STAY BLESSED...YOU are LOVED!Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-28582279878726125342010-08-29T10:22:00.000-07:002010-08-29T11:58:51.513-07:00Flattery may lead to abduction...w/ Sam Watkins BTRHonored to guest on Sam Watkins BTR, Tues. Sept. 7th, I'll be discussing red flag indicators that flattery may lead to abduction. Recorded from 7-9PM Central time, Sam dedicates the first half hour to missing/awareness updates...I'll be on @7:30 Central, 5:30 PM Pacific. Although teens are most vulnerable, anyone can become prey to an abductor. Abductors are master manipulators. They sense their opportunity when we are at risk. Few think this way, so we just don't see it coming. It may be a seemingly mild-mannered lady, not always the stereo-typed thug, who draws in the "victim". Their motivation is MONEY. Human trafficking is a 31 billion dollar a year industry. Often "victims" are sucked into the sex trade, tho thousands are lured to work as domestics, agricultural workers, in production/manufacturing or countless other industries. Any time fraud, force or coersion is used to exploit one sexually or the fruits of their labor, it's trafficking.<br /><br />Because the risk is low and profits ridiculously high, gangs and organized crime are heavily involved. Often activities are parallel to drug or weapons trade...these networks are well-established. Anyone who displays/reveals a need to provide for themself and/or others can be lured into the web. Runaways, foster children, and immigrants desperate for a better life are frequently targeted...sometimes lured from gas stations or supermarket parking lots by a seemingly generous offer. The abductor typically hands off his prey to someone in his/her channel. Emotional brainwashing or conditioning is facilitated through deprivation of sleep and food, cemented with physical force. Conditioning is so thorough, prey endures silently even if they are offered help. The level of trauma that ensues can be paralyzing. In most areas, local law enforcement does not recognize or know how to handle these situations. Simply by placing an anonomous call to 888-3737-888, the Human Trafficking Hotline, YOU can be a hero. YOU can save or transform a life.<br /><br />We'll go in depth during the program, and I'll describe Tomorrows Heroes In Training which bridges community members and corporate America to the social services arena I've dedicated the past 20 years of my life to. I recognize many don't want to hear about the gloom and doom of human trafficking, abuse or abduction...yet you don't need to be trained as a fireman or defense expert to save or transform a life. Now recruitting: Tomorrow's Heroes In Training. Enrollment and subscription opportunities will be unveiled shortly, thanks to a team of incredible coaches and mentors who genuinely and whole-heartedly support the vision. <br /><br />Visit <a href="http://www.survivoronamission.org/">www.survivoronamission.org</a> or <a href="http://survivoronamission.blogspot.com/">http://survivoronamission.blogspot.com</a> Be aware and be safe. Blessings to you and yours; each one of you is precious to me. This world needs YOU!Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-63831525065145097552010-08-19T12:44:00.000-07:002010-08-19T12:59:36.782-07:00BE AWARE, BE A HERO, SAVE A LIFEMy calling to advocacy and awareness is focussed in three areas: RAPE, HUMAN TRAFFICKING, and DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. My own ordeal met the technical definition of all three. This quick post will share a compelling statistic on each, and hotline numbers where compassionate help awaits. RAPE: One out of three American women experiences rape during her college career...still we agree it is widely unreported. RAINN is available at 800-656-HOPE, and for those needing intervention for related PTSD, 800-64-PANIC. Worldwide, more people are enslaved today than at any time in recorded history. It's in the supply chain of products we use daily. Its low risk and highly profitable for traffickers. Call 888-3737-888 for the Human Trafficking Hotline...local law enforcement is not well trained for proper response in many communities. DOMESTIC ABUSE: According to the US Dept. of Justice, 63% of males between the ages of 11-20 who are convicted of murder KILL the person who was abusing their mother. Call the National DV Hotline at 800-799-SAFE. As an advocate, I am personally available to listen and make referrals to you or when someone you love needs related services or support. I'm also trained as a Trauma Resolution Specialist. Each one of YOU is precious. YOUR AWARENESS may save a life. Visit <a href="http://www.survivoronamission/">www.survivoronamission</a> for additional information. Blessings to you and yours.Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-61419681130375375902010-07-24T10:37:00.000-07:002010-07-24T11:17:37.105-07:00Anti-Trafficking Symposium in Los AngelesC.A.S.T. LA facilitated an Anti-Trafficking Symposium, in conjuction with Thai CDC on 7/23/10 at California Endowment. This survivor was both honored ahd humbled to meet survivors and leaders from CAST, Free the Slaves, KIWA (Koreatown Immigrant Workers Alliance), PWC (Philipino Workers' Center), CHIRLA (Coalition for Humane Immigrant Rights of LA), and the Thai CDC. Survivors included women enslaved as long as 17 years. Among those sharing their experience: Rotchana Cheunchujit, liberated in the El Monte raid 15 years ago and Maria Suarez, migrant worker's rights educator who was enslaved during a time when victims were treated as criminals.<br /><br />Maria spent years wondering "if GOD forgot about me". <br /><br />Rotchana described living and working environment and psychological conditioning to distrust everyone. She spoke no English then; they were told it is dangerous in America...the blacks will kill you and the Mexicans will rape you. She and her fellow workers were so fearful their liberators had to use an axe to enter the property to free them!<br /><br />Henry Ong, Executive Director of the Thai CDC wrote the play "FABRIC" performing thru 8/8 at The Company of Angels on Spring Street in LA, depicting the pre-dawn raid on 8-2-95 of the El Monte sweat shops.<br /><br />Clients served by C.A.S.T.La (Coalition Against Slavery and Trafficking) have largely been of Latino or Asian decent, many from the Philipines and Guatamala, their labor exploited as domestics, agriculture or production workers. While typically our first thoughts may be of women enslaved as commercial sex workers, it is important to recognize with high demand for cheap labor, not only do foreigners fall prey...thousands of American citizens are trafficked domestically and abroad as well. The common underpinning element: First step is psychological conditioning...very similar to that used by an abuser to keep his/her victim silent.<br /><br />Thank you for taking the time to read, become aware and show you care. You are precious! I love and appreciate each one of you. Be safe, and stay blessed.<br /><br />Visit <a href="http://www.castla.org/">www.castla.org</a> for additional information about trafficking. If you suspect human trafficking or seek information on volunteering, call 888-539-2373 (key.2.freedom).Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-19300131582513536682010-06-11T14:33:00.000-07:002010-06-11T14:50:52.835-07:00Urge Gov Lingle to sign HB 2045Across the United States, the 2008 TVPA protects those exploited by human trafficking. Forty-five states have legislation and protocols in place to serve and protect their citizens. Hawaii is one of five states that currently lacks such protection. Both the House and Senate have passed HB 2045, which awaits signature by Hawaii's Governor, Linda Lingle. <br /><br />YOUR call to the governor's office, at 808 586-0034 is appreciated...even if you are not a Hawaii resident. <br /><br />Regular readers know my special connection to Hawaii, my family's history there and that my ordeal originated in Honolulu. I was "trafficked" to Washington state, one of four states which lacks protection for those who experience domestic violence. Perpetrators know which states have no laws or ordinances under which they can be prosecuted. Residents most frequently are not aware. And here in California, where we have some of the strongest protection in the country, it is beyond comprehension that in some states there are either no laws, no ordinances, or no enforcement. <br /><br />If you have concerns about Human Trafficking, call 1-888-3737-888. Thank you for your support and interest. Stop by <a href="http://www.survivoronamission.org/">www.survivoronamission.org</a> I'm in your corner. Stay safe and stay blessed.Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-90245102970748487072010-05-18T12:26:00.000-07:002010-05-18T13:01:17.815-07:00Human trafficking in our own backyardMore people are enslaved today, than at any other time in recorded history. Human trafficking is the second largest black market industry, and its running rampant although most of us choose to turn a blind eye to it. I'm going to break it down for you, as we learn together. Here are just two examples of human trafficking...one involving US citizens and one Koreans...that earned the spot on the map for San Diego and San Francisco as hotspots. Los Angeles is another, which I'll highlight in a future post. <br /><br />San Diego is ranked #8, and likely trafficking there is widely unreported...here's why. As a border town, San Diego has more than its share of runaways. High demand for cheap labor makes trafficking very lucrative, especially since that resource can be sold over and over again. In San Diego, gangs are moving in to trafficking...snatching vulnerable youth and runaways...approaching like shining knights who will "protect" their interest. Often, but not exclusively, youth are groomed as sex slaves...boys and girls. <br /><br />Due to the high level of "security" once ensnared, escape is nearly impossible.<br /><br />Back in 2005, San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsome (now running for Lt. Gov.) implemented solid measures to limit future violations when over 100 Korean women were found extending services beyond massage. Boarded in tight, concealed quarters, extreme security in place kept the workers in and continuously monitored...it was not for their safety or protection, it was for their containment! Now practitioners must be trained massage therapists, with registered permits. Health Department Inspectors make surprise visits. Mayor Newsome includes this among his personal crusades...NOT ON HIS WATCH! <br /><br />These were just two brief examples. Be aware when you notice high level security. Don't turn a blind eye, call the National Hotline...1-888-3737-888. Thank you for your time and attention to this compelling issue. Stay safe and stay blessed. <br /><br />For additional information and resources to assist with PTSD resulting from rape, child or adult abuse, visit <a href="http://www.survivoronamission.org/">www.survivoronamission.org</a>Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-38542837010640909272010-05-04T23:27:00.000-07:002010-05-07T17:09:27.722-07:00Trusting the polygraph...Julie Ann Gonzalez' husband takes the testOn May 2, 2010, this survivor was in the studio audience for the taping of Dr. Phil's episode exploring what his marketing people refer to as "Runaway Moms". The program scheduled to air on May 7th examines the dissappearance of Julie Ann Gonzalez on March 26, 2010. When I saw her missing person poster pop up among my network just over a week ago...something didn't gel.<br /><br />My intuition tells me Julie Ann is no runaway. She was last seen by her estranged husband, George. Julie's mother and aunt were guests on Dr. Phil's show; her husband, George and his mother were present as well as experts including CBS legal analyst, Lisa Bloom and former FBI Agent and polygraph expert, Jack Trimarco.<br /><br />Julie's mother, Sandra, and her aunt believe her estranged husband, George, knows more than he's telling. George is the last person to have seen Julie Ann, when she dropped their daughter for visitation. George's mother lept to his defense. They implied Julie Ann may have skipped out like Tiffany Tehan, the Colorado pastor's daughter and young mother/wife who checked out on her family without a word, surfacing several days later on a Miami beach with her married boyfriend.<br /><br />Given Julie and George's estranged relationship, reports of physical abuse, and Julie's devotion to her daughter, George was named "a person of interest". Julie's family is concerned so much time passed since her dissappearance, frustrated her trail may be "going cold". Not suprisingly, Lisa Bloom's perception was that George knows more than he is telling. Dr. Phil explained that while polygraph results may not be admissable in court, when both parties agree and stipulate to results in advance, they may be admitted.<br /><br />With former FBI agent/Polygraph expert Jack Trimarco on hand to administer, Dr. Phil persuaded George to agree to be tested! Given the opportunity to clear his name or possibly reveal involvement or knowledge regarding Julie Ann's dissappearance, George complied. For approximately 90 minutes, Trimarco and George established and agreed to the parameters of the test, then continued with very specific questions aiding the investigation and discovery in Julie's dissappearance.<br /><br />The longer a person remains missing, the more grave the situation becomes. Those who remain "at large" are in serious peril and at-risk for human trafficking due to a growing demand for cheap labor and/or commercial sex.<br /><br />Check your local listings for Friday, May 7th (in Los Angeles, at 4 PM on channel 2 or at 7 PM on channel 9) for the airing of this episode including the results of George's polygraph test. Kudos, Dr. Phil, for facilitating this discovery. The airing of the May 7th episode included polygraph administration, tho the sealed envelope results will not be aired until May 14th. Dedicated workers at the missing persons hotlines across the US and abroad. In California, call at 800 222-FIND. Additional information regarding abuse or trafficking, including therapy-free, post-traumatic recovery is available at <a href="http://www.survivoronamission.org/">http://www.survivoronamission.org/</a>. Be Aware, be safe, and stay blessed.Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com24tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-43574220973393778362010-04-22T12:09:00.000-07:002010-04-22T12:46:41.559-07:00Legislative Update RE Domestic Violence in WA StateIn reviewing the Legislative Session Summary 2010 from the Washington State Coalition Against Domestic Violence, once again this survivor is stunned by the "reasoning". HB 3111, SB6318 would have provided mandatory reporting of gunshot wounds. Legislation was opposed by the WSCADV and FAILED. <br /><br />I messaged the Coalition and asked them to explain why they would oppose such a measure. Their position...an automatic report by the hospital might prevent an injured party from seeking medical care! From the perspective of one who survived near fatal injury in Washington State, even when I urged hospital workers to report my injury, POLICE DID NOT RESPOND. There is no protocol in place that requires them to respond. My captor/assailant went on to abuse other women while I was hospitalized, recovering from injuries. If law enforcement would have responded, this would have been prevented. <br /><br />Other measures that did pass, include HB2770/SB 6504 which reduced crime victim compensation to a maximum of $50,000 (from $190,000). On a positive note, funding was preserved for domestic violence shelter programs with only a slight reduction in advocacy. In terms of repeat domestic violence offenders, ESHB 2777 clarifies that individuals restrained by a protection order cannot possess firearms! This may seem like a no-brainer for residents of 46 states...but be aware that in Washington, Georgia, Oklahoma and Nebraska there is virtually no protocol for protection, no ordinances in place to serve those at greatest risk. Domestic violence is not "a private matter". Nearly all offenders are serial offenders...if we don't take measures to stop them, its only a matter of WHO is next! (maybe someone YOU love).<br /><br />Visit <a href="http://www.survivoronamission.org/">www.survivoronamission.org</a> for additional information about domestic violence, human trafficking, rape and resolution of PTSD which frequently results from these ordeals. Included under trauma resolution is a free MP3 download of guided imagery exercises that bring the listener to that peaceful place within themselves...a place fellow practitioiners call "pure awareness". Join me in pure awareness; please forward this link to someone you care about who is stuck in suffering. Stay blessed.Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-19129920348008330902010-03-29T00:04:00.001-07:002010-03-29T10:26:04.621-07:00Survivor's Journey in Defining Human TraffickingMy personal ordeal beginning as a financial con, escalating to captivity, extreme physical & sexual abuse, escaping in May 2005, I knew enough about domestic abuse to recognize my experience included the 4 types: physical, sexual, emotional & financial.<br /><br />Nearly five years later, attending a play by Dr. Ana Nogales "Don't Call me Baby" on human trafficking at the CASA0101 Theatre, I was stunned to learn the defining elements of human trafficking...one or more of these three elements meets the definition: Use of Force, Use of Coersion, or Fraud as a basis of re-locating for purposes of forced labor or sexual exploitation. My own ordeal launched in fraud, followed with coersion and continued with force, extracting me from my young adult daughters, our South Bay home, a job and a life that delighted me...to the gloom and doom of Washington State, one of four states that in effect still considers domestic violence "a private matter". What this means is there are no local domestic violence ordinances, no protocols for protection. My assailant/trafficker has been sentenced on the physical violence, aggrevated by coersion, yet prosecution did not address the financial fraud. I was neither the first, nor the last "victim" of my assailant, in terms of domestic violence, or in terms of human trafficking (as I now understand it).<br /><br />To share your concerns, or for more information about human trafficking, call the hotline @ 888-373-7888. Post-traumatic stress (PTSD) is common among those affected by human trafficking and/or violence. Readers are invited to visit <a href="http://www.survivoronamission.org/">http://www.survivoronamission.org/</a>for additional information on trauma resolution, including a free MP3 download to sample pure awareness and begin the healing process. Please share this link and awareness with those you love. Stay blessed.Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-28876852120325470442010-03-22T11:09:00.000-07:002010-03-22T12:02:44.828-07:00Sexual Assaults on campuses (likely unreported)As a survivor of domestic and sexual violence, I can understand why so many "victims" do not report these crimes. Frequently, their anxiety about having to re-tell their experience...first in reporting to campus and/or local police, then in interviews with prosecutors...ultimately in the courtroom...adds insult to injury. While typically, this survivor addresses a larger audience, in terms of abuse, this post concentrates on awareness as it applies to the college careers of women in the United States. According to the American Association of University Women, one if five women are raped during their time in college. Sixty-five percent are unreported, and alcohol is involved in 75% of cases. <br /><br />Frequently I repost the National 24-hr DV Hotline number 1-800-799-SAFE. Specific to Sexual Assault, call 1-800-656-4673. Post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) frequently affects reactions and decision-making for a lifetime after such an ordeal. Visit <a href="http://www.survivoronamission.org/">www.survivoronamission.org</a> for helpful information about domestic violence, rape, PTSD, and some of the most effective ways to move from survive to thrive, post-trauma. This site includes a tab for trauma resolution; and pure awareness is one of many highly effective techniques that helps "victims" reclaim their power.<br /><br />For this survivor, even the word "victim" makes me cringe. Beginning my fund raising career at Homeward Bound in Phoenix, my foundational mentor, Dr. Pamela Martin taught me that empowerment begins when we identify as survivors, not victims. Regardless of each woman's choice to report or not to report the crime against her, reclaiming our power begins in our choice...our decision...to consider ourselves as "survivors" or as "victims". <br /><br />Taking the bold step to report the crime reduces the likelihood the assailant will repeat the offense against you or others. Rarely do offenders step out of line only once. Each time they experience no consequence, the odds increase for the pattern to develop, and the offender becomes a serial offender. Especially in campus communities, when we choose not to report the crime, the assailant is likely to strike again...maybe even the same "victim", maybe someone else in her social circle or a fellow student on the same campus. <br /><br />Each of us is responsible for our own actions...we do not trigger the actions of another. Choosing to wear a short skirt or fitted top is not an invitation. Sharing a glass of wine and conversation does not imply intimate access. Shame is a demoralizing emotion that stifles our expression and potential. Trained as a Trauma Resolution Specialist, I've learned to guide "victims" and "survivors" in releasing negative emotional energy as a beginning step in self-recovery, and a key factor as we strive to thrive and serve others. <br /><br />In service as an advocate, I speak for those who haven't found their pathway to stepping out of silence. Using poetry and art as a healing tools, in collaboration with A Window Between Worlds, am in the production phases of releasing my copyrighted poetry collection, based on my own experience. Much of the poetry collection will be inter-twined in my true crime survival story as a more palatable way of delivering extremely grissley content. My poem, Stepping Out of Silence is included in my <a href="http://www.youtube.com/wetch?v+OYNeOCO_Ops">toastmaster's icebreaker </a>at <a href="http://www.youtube.com/wetch?v=OYNeOCO_Ops">www.youtube.com/wetch?v=OYNeOCO_Ops</a> To support my advocacy efforts, tax deductible contributions are welcome at <a href="http://www.survivoronamission.org/">www.SurvivorOnAMission.org</a> As an adovocate, I am in your service. Contact me to assist you or someone you care about in making the post traumatic shift, first from victim to survivor...then, Survive to Thrive.Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-19014271566808758182010-03-05T00:32:00.000-08:002010-03-22T09:55:04.728-07:00Tragedy in TacomaReading the <a href="http://www.blogger.com/y2010m2d26-Jennifer-Paulson-School-shooting-of-special-ed-teacher-pastor-says-tragic-end-to-a-beautiful-life">Seattle Examiner story</a> of Jennifer Paulson, a special ed. elementary teacher in Pierce Co. Washington, this survivor is regularly reminded how dangerous it is to live in WA State. After years of being stalked, Jennifer finally obtained a restraining order a year and a half ago. That order violated, her assailant was arrested last week, bailing out on Monday for 10K. On Friday 2/26/2010 @ 7:30 AM, she was shot on school grounds in Tacoma, Washington.<br /><br />Same city where former police chief <a href="http://www.thenewstribune.com/369/">David Brame</a> killed his wife, Crystal Judson Brame, as their children watched. Crystal had filed for divorce, the documents specifying Chief Brame held a loaded gun to her head and threatened her...that the only way she was leaving him, was dead. The City Manager called the documents "a private matter". The lack of protocol for protection of domestic violence in Washington puts all residents in extreme risk, even more so when the accused is a public safety worker who carries a gun on the job. Though Crystal's family has made remarkable strides in terms of awareness in the state since she was shot in 2003, there's still a long way to go.<br /><br />Last week HB 2777 extended was passed in WA State, constituents grateful for any recognition or support for domestic violence survivors, still a far cry from what 46 other states would consider reasonable. How many lives will be lost in Washington State before they have a paradigm shift in what is considered a "private matter"?<br /><br />As this survivor made way to a Seattle ER after strangulation in 2005, a "private matter" protocol did not compell local authorities to even take a police report after verifying severity of injuries would require extended hospitalization...no immediate danger they said.<br /><br />Advocates in Washington tell me to push for legislation, without local dv ordinances and protocol, would further endanger those at greatest risk. I ask readers to take a few moments of quiet reflection, focussed energy and attention to this dark cloud that engulfs the State of Washington. May its leaders collaborate to quickly enact the changes its residents deserve. May Jennifer Paulson's family find comfort in their sorrow, may Crystal Judson rest in peace. Too many have paid with their lives for this good old boy network and private matter designation. May it end here.<br /><br />Reader comments always welcome and honored. My heart goes out to each of you, I love and thank you for your support. Stay blessed.Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-53608081453390200902010-02-06T07:43:00.001-08:002010-02-06T07:59:21.589-08:00HB 2778-WA State Call to ActionAs regular readers know, inconsistency in state reporting laws is an issue I'm passionate about, having experienced for myself the deficiencies in WASHINGTON State laws (that allowed my perpetrator to continue violating other women while I was hospitalized, recovering from near fatal injuries). In the last legislative session, Washington finally included a provision under which police would be engaged WHEN A VICTIM ARRIVES UNCONCSCIOUS. <br /><br />NOW, Washington House Bill 2778, which is presently stalled in Ways and Means Committee seeks to make WA State law more consistent with the rest of the country in terms of how law enforcement agencies handle domestic violence reports.<br /><br />From this survivor's perspective, the key points/provisions of House Bill 2778:<br /><br />Make it illegal for someone restrained by an order of protection to possess firearms.<br /><br />Clarifies circumstances where a teen in a dating relationship is eligible for an order of protection.<br /><br />Establishes a process to reconcile court orders with different provisions on orders of protection. AND<br /><br />Clarifies protocol when domestic violence is experienced by Washington residents out of jurisdiction.<br /><br />For those of us living in California and other states leading the way in terms of protection, it is inconceivable that this inconsistence exists in the U.S. We do not have equal states of protection. <br /><br />Washington residents are encouraged to contact their representative, urging them to move HB 2778 out of Ways and Means by this call to action. I thank you for your awareness and support. Together we will make a change, we will make a difference! <br /><br />Linville, Kelli (D) Chair <br />42 (360) 786-7854<br />Linville.kelli@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Ericks, Mark (D) Vice Chair <br />1 (360) 786-7900<br />ericks.mark@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Sullivan, Pat (D) Vice Chair <br />47 (360) 786-7858<br />Sullivan.pat@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Alexander, Gary (R) * <br />20 (360) 786-7990<br />Alexander.gary@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Bailey, Barbara (R) ** <br />10 (360) 786-7914<br />Bailey.barbara@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Dammeier, Bruce (R) ** <br />25 (360) 786-7948<br />Dammeier.bruce@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Chandler, Bruce (R) <br />15 (360) 786-7960<br />Chandler.bruce@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Cody, Eileen (D) <br />34 (360) 786-7978<br />Cody.eileen@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Conway, Steve (D) <br />29 (360) 786-7906<br />Conway.steve@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Darneille, Jeannie (D) <br />27 (360) 786-7974<br />Darneille.jeannie@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Haigh, Kathy (D) <br />35 (360) 786-7966<br />Haigh.kathy@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Hinkle, Bill (R) <br />13 (360) 786-7808<br />Hinkle.bill@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Hunt, Sam (D) <br />22 (360) 786-7992<br />Hunt.sam@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Hunter, Ross (D) <br />48 (360) 786-7936<br />Hunter.ross@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Kagi, Ruth (D) <br />32 (360) 786-7910<br />Kagi.ruth@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Kenney, Phyllis Gutierrez (D) <br />46 (360) 786-7818<br />Kenny.phyllis@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Kessler, Lynn (D) <br />24 (360) 786-7904<br />Kessler.lynn@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Pettigrew, Eric (D) <br />37 (360) 786-7838<br />Pettigrew.eric@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Priest, Skip (R) <br />30 (360) 786-7830<br />Priest.skip@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Ross, Charles (R) <br />14 (360) 786-7856<br />Ross.charles@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Schmick, Joe (R) <br />9 (360) 786-7844<br />Schmick.joe@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />Seaquist, Larry (D) <br />26 (360) 786-7802<br />Seaquist.larry@leg.wa.gov<br /><br />*Ranking Minority Member **Asst. Ranking Minority MemberAdoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com18tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-34202523752972596242010-01-30T21:27:00.000-08:002010-01-30T22:24:55.755-08:00Resiliency: What does not kill me, makes me strongInspired by a study cited in WebMD Medscape Today, Seligman(2002) observed exposure to uncontrollable negatiave events leads to helplessness. We become passive and prone to physical ailments. The shift from helplessness to learned optimism may be aided by a simple exercise. <br /><br />Start by projecting one month into the future...what would you like to see? Next, how would you think & behave to reach that goal, from the perspective of a victim...of a survivor? Notice the differences and which attitude is most helpful. <br /><br />This exercise is helpful when you or someone you know is actively or recently removed from an abusive situation or family trauma, including foster children. Learned optimism, organic optimism,is effortless from a place of pure awareness. To help find that peaceful place of pure awareness within yourself, take a 15-minute trip via guided imagery offered as a free MP3 download on the Survivor website at the Pure Awareness menu tab. Click here to go to www.survivoronamission.org Stay blessed.Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-56772573287277439752010-01-17T14:46:00.000-08:002010-01-17T15:26:03.579-08:00Invoking Blessings and Positive EnergyWith so many lost souls in our world today, I'm truly blessed in my discovery of my life's purpose. Although not that long ago, SURVIVAL was my aspiration, having made the shift, Post-trauma, from Survive to Thrive I seek to serve as an inspiration, activist, coach and conduit to resolve diagnosed and undiagnosed PTSD. While my colleagues at Great Life Technologies focus on serving combat veterans, adaptation and applicaton of these techniques holds promise for those affected by abuse, violence and family trauma. <br /><br />My dear CEO colleague, Julie Ann Cohn, a survivor of a different sort and award winning author, recommended me to a friend with Inspired Authors Publishing...to be considered for a collection endorsed by The Dalai Lama. I've just transmitted my draft and ask my reader's positive thought and energy towards this project, especially while my story is under consideration. <br /><br />A couple weeks ago, I recorded voice guided imagery exercises that bring the engaged listener to a blissful, meditative state. The exercises are an expanded interpretation of those developed by Tom Stone of Great Life Technologies which serve as an underpinning of Trauma Resolution coaching. The first exercise, uses the GAP technique to induce a meditative state and will be available at no charge @ www.survivoronamission.org For those who want more...an expanded version of the AGAPE technique is also available. A $9.95 download fee extends both exercises in audio and text format, providing the reader with a script to guide a partner or group to that peaceful place within. The "IT Team" at Trinity Productions is in the final stages of making this available. <br /><br />Thank you for your time in choosing to read and support Survivor On A Mission. Your feedback and comments are important, so please let me know what you would like to see more (or less) of. I LOVE YOU...STAY BLESSED!Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-61838150424746620162009-12-23T16:00:00.000-08:002009-12-23T16:34:33.494-08:00Character Development LessonsJoining CEO Space was like stepping into the sweet spot. While lifetime members come together from around the world to collaborate in business, the connection and bonding goes much deeper. Last week, our forum/retreat was in session in Nevada. During dinner, our colleague JASON WEBB, an Intellectual Property Attorney from Sandy, UT shared his family's experience and a touching lesson for children...SO POWERFUL...I felt compelled to share it with my readers.<br /><br />Through an organization called KIVA (www.KIVA.org)which offers micro-loans to women entrepreneurs in developing countries, the Webb children truly learn the joy of giving and the profound difference it makes. It's difficult for many of us to grasp that as little as $25 for bowls and basic utensils can permanently shift the outlook for a mother and her children. <br /><br />Jason and his wife Nanette established accounts, funded by their children doing extra chores around the home. Their kids choose which project(s) they want to support by funding a micro-loan. When the loan is repaid, or as they work to earn more to contribute, they chose other projects. Not only are the Webb kids excited and proud to work for the benefit of those far less fortunate, they learn not to take for granted basics like food and shelter...not to mention access to information and the many wonders of this electronic age. <br /><br />Through the website, gift certificates are available to easily and affordably allow you to incorporate this lesson and pride in your family's legacy. Blessings abound. I'm counting my acquaintence with Jason among mine this holiday. Looking for an IP ATTY with integrity and heart...go to www.webbiplaw.com <br /><br />Readers, we would love to hear how you've inspired the joy of giving in your children. Their wonder and delight hold the promise for humanity's future.Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-76155502860071168672009-12-13T11:44:00.001-08:002009-12-13T12:31:47.337-08:00Trauma Resolution & Bliss CoachingFollowing immersion by Great Life Technologies and participating in the very first training group...trained by Tom Stone himself, implementation of these techniques was effortless for me. More importantly, so inspired, I couldn't wait to begin offering sessions. While I recognized these techniques will allow everyone to enjoy richer relationship and higher productivity while equipping them to respond optimally to stress or dysfunction in their lives, it is those at greatest risk... who will most benefit from the shift. <br /><br />Quite the opposite of therapy...where it takes a therapist years to build rapport with a client who gradually reveals more and more circumstances and emotions, this approach is efficient. Guided meditation brings clients directly to the experiential level WITHOUT discussing what hurt. Even clients who have had years of counseling have praised this system, the immediate and lasting results they have enjoyed.<br /><br />Those fortunate to have not experienced trauma in their lives learn quickly to enrich what is already working...weekly sessions over a month's time will train them to use the techniques effectively without a practitioner facilitating. For who hold emotional energy from one or more traumatic events, it takes just a few sessions more. Weekly sessions are key to applying and learning the techniques for yourself. Even in the most extreme cases, within 2-3 months past traumas are permanently resolved and the client trained to self-guide to sustain "Pure Awareness" <br /><br />PURE AWARENESS is the underpinning of all coaching. In introductory sessions, clients are guided to pure awareness. They recognize and desire this level of awareness...they understand that from this place, EVERYTHING is possible. Like a tour guide of sorts, as a Trauma Resolution Specialist/Bliss Coach, I'll teach you to find this place for yourself. I'll teach you how to test for yourself what is congruent with YOUR OWN ESSENTIAL NATURE. The stories you have been telling yourself and others do not serve you! I am merely a conduit, bringing Tom's techniques for you to learn and implement along YOUR JOURNEY TO GUIDED BLISS. NONE OF US ARE VICTIMS! I'll teach you to shift from Survive to Thrive (quickly)! <br /><br />While links are placed on website, etc...here's a testimonial from a dear client:<br /><br />"Since becoming involved with Pamela, a very gifted Trauma Resolution Specialist, I have noticed within myself a deeper and higher sense of inner awareness. After each session, I am able to go about my day with a sense of calm and connection with my higher self/soul. I enjoy the knowledge and wisdom I am gaining from Pamela, and my guided sessions which is assisting me in my desires to shift from everyday surviving to thriving. I am looking forward to completing the full process with Pamela and continuation of my self personal growth with an ease I never thought possible." Julie E. <br /><br />Coaching is highly effective in groups. Sessions available in your location or my Redondo Beach office. Honor me with the privilege of serving as YOUR expert tour guide in your PTSD shift from Survive to Thrive... or YOUR JOURNEY TO GUIDED BLISS.Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-89725898230574134402009-12-06T13:35:00.000-08:002009-12-10T01:29:47.213-08:00SHIFT TO BLISSA couple weeks now since completing Great Life Technologies training as a Trauma Resolution Specialist, utilizing breakthru techniques in Human Software Engineering, my personal shift from Survive to Thrive will be reflected in Survivor On A Mission.<br />Humbled by the honor to serve as a conduit bringing Tom Stone's techniques to those whose survival depends on it. With fewer than a hundred of us trained in these techniques, many will use them in their own practices or with clients referred through Great Life Technologies. My background in fundraising and program development calls me, in stewardship, to deliver this training to those whose very survival depends on it. I'll continue to pursue grant funding and other resources to provide these services and to train key personnel who work with at-risk individuals across the board...that part of my mission is on-going.<br /><br />With my own human software "de-bugged", clearly in addition to guiding the shift for survivors, everyone benefits by guided-imagery to a blissful meditative state, to maximize their joy and productivity. For those who are not haunted by past traumatic experiences or emotions, GUIDED BLISS Coaching services illuminate the path to enjoy richer relationships, improve productivity and concentration, and respond optimally under dysfunctional or stressful circumstances. <br /><br />Trauma Resolution and Guided Bliss Coaching services are now available in my Redondo Beach office, telephonic services to be available spring 2010. Introductory sessions cost $50 which can be applied to coaching package; Introductory session is good for you + up to 3 prompt guests; it brings clients to the blissful, meditative state which serves as the foundation for future coaching. Additionally, clients learn muscle-testing and how to verify what is congruent with YOUR essential nature. <br /><br />In the new year, a new blog and website will be established consistent with guidedbliss@yahoo.com Thank YOU, to all my readers, who painstakingly watched the process and progression from Survive to Thrive. I love you all.Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-23466757832749420892009-11-23T17:04:00.000-08:002009-11-23T17:30:17.146-08:00Survive to Thrive...ready, set, GO!Misperceptions about Post Traumatic Stress keep many from learning more. Experiencing severe trauma in 2005, wrongly I associated PTS with mental illness. That diagnosis, and my perception it would be followed with years of prescribed drugs and therapy led me to look in other directions.<br /><br />Fortunately, CEO Space colleagues at Great Life Technologies dismantled those misperceptions! Pioneering the field of human software engineering, Tom Stone has developed a series of techniques to assist YOU in resolving Post Traumatic Stress, from any cause (not only domestic violence). NOT therapy, within a few to several sessions, YOU will be guided by a Trauma Resolution Specialist (TRS) in clearing past issues, then equipped with the tools and techniques to take future hurdles and traumas in stride. <br /><br />Trauma Resolution Specialists first undergo an emersion...we "get the junk out of our own trunk" before we can guide YOU without being triggered by your experiences. Again, this is not therapy. Our clients don't pay to tell their story...in fact, its just the opposite. We guide our clients to recognize they are not their story. Each of YOU is much, much more than the sum of your experiences! <br /><br />After emersion, TRS participate in webinars for 5-6 months to become sertified with Great Life Technologies. We are, however, well-prepared to guide those traumatized to a peaceful, blissful place. By referral, we'll get YOU connected to a TRS near you, or a more advanced practitioner who can guide you telephonically. <br /><br />Application of Great Life Technologies is proven successful for those with post traumatic stress from early childhood traumas, physical or sexual assaults, veterans returning from combat, and virtually any other potential cause. Visit www.greatlifetechnologies.com for additional information. In Southern California, I/we serve individuals or groups in moving towards inner peace, free of traumatic stress. This is the BLISS YOU DESERVE!Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-43968249724252096172009-11-02T18:09:00.000-08:002009-11-02T23:49:50.445-08:00Cues and Clues of the Con (part 2)My personal ordeal began as a financial con. I'm not alone. Many women and men have been taken by a con artist. To provide an open forum for discussion, co-host Minoshia Gail Humphrey and I will debut a podcast feature including our own experiences inviting guests to CALL IN WITH YOUR comments @ 9:30 AM PST on 11/5. This blog post serves as a preview and opening discussion point. We welcome your call to 347 237-4584 during our half hour podcast, in awareness and service. With no sympathy for the bereaved, YOUR weakness = the con artist's opportunity.<br /><br />What sets the con-artist apart? Here are five leading indicators: 1)A free spirit, whose personal welfare outweighs ANY consideration. 2)A natural ability to manipulate others, often discovered at an early age. 3)Manipulation that derives satisfaction, absent ANY guilt or remorse. 4)Above average intelligence, with charm and sincerity empty of concern, the con-artist is anti-social/lacking social conscience. And 5)Gifted with exceptional memory, con-artists juggle and compartmentalize characters/victims. <br /><br />The con-artist is a formidable foe. Among their street-wise marks are skilled psychiatrists and saavy correctional officers. The con-artist chooses his mark carefully, bringing his arsenal of psychological manipulation to move us from a position of control to one where he holds all the power.<br /><br />The mark of a con-artist is made to feel admired, or in grave danger...completely dependent on the fraudster. Building dependency, the con-artist uses scare tactics or outright threats to yank the leash wrapped around the mark's survival instincts.<br /><br />Accessing your personality, the con-artist will zero in on specific traits he/she can easily exploit, instilling a sence of security in dealing with him or her...conveying the appearance only he can fulfill your need. The con-artist accomplishes this with great skill. <br /><br />Protect yourself by investigating the offer objectively...without emotion. Ask yourself two questions:<br /><br />Does the person giving information or making the offer have anything to gain by misrepresenting himself/herself? And, if he/she is lying, how much will it affect YOU? <br /><br />Frequently those who have fallen prey to a con-artist are severely traumatized. How do we begin to trust ourselves or our instincts afterwards...and how can we move from survive to thrive after demoralization? Embarrassment or humiliation do not serve us well. You may find participating in open forum discussions helpful in shifting from victimization, stepping back into your power. <br /><br />Techniques developed to assist those who suffer from post traumatic stress, adapted for we who have fallen prey to a con-artist, bring a rapid shift. Readers who want to learn more can go to www.greatlifetechnologies.com and stay tuned for opportunities to participate in a group setting where the 8 techniques of Pure Awareness, developed by Tom Stone, will set you free. Tom and his colleagues will train me, in a group of fellow practitioners, to facilitate these techniques. Now, the choice is YOURS. Be Aware, and be safe.Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696116719558444059.post-71816735554352841712009-10-22T22:22:00.000-07:002009-10-22T22:54:47.063-07:00CA DV funding restored, under pressureOn October 21, 2009 CA Gov. Schwarzenegger signed SBX3 13 restoring $16.3 million for domestic violence shelters and emergency programs, under public and media scrutiny. Schwarzenegger said he "was proud to sign the bi-partisan legislation" which state legislators put in front of him only after he slashed the entire budget ($500 million) for all programs funded under the state's Department of Public Health. The new legislation provides $16.3 million of funds the governor had allocated to his Alternative Fuel Fund be BORROWED with interest, so that domestic violence shelters and emergency programs can be minimally sustained for 2009-10.<br /><br />My shelter affiliates tell me they anticipate in effect, approximately 70% of the State operating funds in comparison to 2008-09. I've been watching and listening closely. These shelters are doing an excellent job in tightening their belts without sacrificing client services (at least here in LA where they are supplemented by public support...not so much in rural CA). <br /><br />It has warmed my heart to see the generosity of individuals, making contributions and organizing events NOW, more than ever, when shelters need community support. Not only the celebrities who get plenty of exposure for their good deeds, which are most welcome and appreciated...but also the community members and board members who are quietly making an incredible difference and who have kept shelters open in many parts of our state when there was NO state money allocated. These are the leaders I am proud to serve. This is the community I am proud to serve.<br /><br />On 10/23, on the steps of the Los Angeles City Hall, Activists unite in a Call to Action, spearheaded by Eve Ensler, of Vagina Monologues fame. We will stand together, invoking First Amendment rights, honoring the protection and programs bought with the blood of our lost loved ones. Readers are invited back for a follow up on the Call to Action. Your conscious, positive thoughts and energy are appreciated as we seek to inspire increased public and corporate support. Our thoughts are with you and your loved ones, that each of you be aware and be safe.Adoptee/Survivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13453364901051170429noreply@blogger.com2